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SUCCESS QUOTIENT FOR LIFE - A REALM OF SELF

Updated: Jan 26, 2023


Let us think together to understand this.

A Paradigm Shift – starts from this day, this moment, and on this platform to look into oneself, an art of inner engineering, helping to deal with a lot of titrations and combination reactions to derive an exponential solution for life.

The solution is a combination formula of love, care, empathy, and congeniality structured by the bonds of will, grit, and determination to conclude with the following "Uncut Truth" for us to come out as diamonds after being treated ….

Celebrate life to engage, explore, equip, empower and evolve to develop

IQ- EQ – SQ and A.Q. and which are as follows:

1)Intelligence Quotient (IQ)

2)EmotionalQuotient (EQ)

3)SocialQuotient (SQ)

AdversityQuotient (AQ)

..... Together consolidates the Holistic Success Quotient of a person.

Covid-19 and its impact is a blessing in disguise, which has formulated life with many titrations and combination reactions to derive an exponential solution for our generations.

Yes, this treatment process has ensured our generations with an endowment to a holistic way of life and its methods of Intelligence involved.

The solution derived is a combination formula of love, care, empathy and congeniality structured by the bonds of will, grit, determination and resilience. To conclude,

"This Too Shall Pass"; for us to come out as diamonds after being treated .............

"The Uncut Truth".

Thinking of psychology as the trunk of a tree, each branch that sprouts from the box finds its roots in the same principles (nature & culture). But each chapter takes a different path towards the sunlight (knowledge & awareness).

This two-way process fr, om the roots to different parts of the tree and from the tree to its roots idealizes human psychology and holistic Intelligence.

This inner engineering experience embedded with outer world reality radically stimulates the holistic Intelligence needed for our holistic existence.

Holistic Intelligence, as viewed in many instances;

the Intelligence that accepts and learns to respect the whole of Reality, Nature and Culture;

the transcendent Intelligence that defines and shapes Reality according to the needs of the future;

the evolutionary impulses and dynamics that bring in the change to transform and sustain.

This state of give and take, as a customary, constitutes a rostrum of co-existence that resonates and synergizes the process of well-being and the formula of the Success Quotient,


Development is multidimensional during the process of change and evolution, and it calls us to deepen each of these four capacities of the Success Formula.




Such a well-developed Intelligence Quotient will not be reactive but proactive to situations, with the ability to develop measures that would enhance catalyst knowledge and its overall application development of the cognitive, psychomotor and affective domains.



Intelligence Quotient includes qualities like

Øanalytical skills,

Ølogical reasoning,

Øability to relate multiple things, and

Øability to store and retrieve information.

I.Q. tests check this through questions related to reading comprehension, data interpretation, logical reasoning, verbal ability, visual-spatial reasoning, classification, analogies and pattern detection.

Alongside the Intelligence Quotient of a person, capitalize on the"following four to activate its success quotient.

  1. Adaptability to a new or changing environment Capacity for knowledge and

  2. the ability to acquire the capacity for a reason and abstract thought

  3. Ability to comprehend relationships, Ability evaluate and judge, and

  4. The Capacity for original and product thinking.

Emotional Intelligence is the ability to recognize and understand emotions in ourselves and others, and it is the ability to use this awareness to manage one's behaviour and relationships.

The following Key competencies activate and synergize the emotional quotient of a person with the agenda-driven success quotient of a person;

self-awareness,

emotional awareness,

self-assessment,

self-confidence;

self-regulation,

self-control,

trustworthiness,

conscientiousness,

adaptability,

innovativeness;

self-motivation and

self-evolution with self-driven, commitment, initiative, optimism, empathy, service orientation, leveraging diversity, and discrimination with social skills influence, communication, leadership, change management, and conflict management all constitute the Emotional Quotient of a person

Such a well-balanced, emotionally poised person will be able to deliver the required thinking and analysing from every single person'sone's point of view, aspect and welfare involved.

Social Quotient is the ability of a person to tune into other people's emotions and read the subtle behavioural cues to choose the most effective response in a given situation. Recognizing others people's emotions and showing empathy enables one to have more positive relationships and minimize unproductive conflicts.

To excel in various roles that we play – be it that of a beloved, spouse, parent, friend, manager, marketer, teacher, leader etc., it is necessary first to have an insight into how emotions work and the skill to observe someone's nonverbal behaviour. It is not some talent you are born with. It is a skill that can be learnt, practised and mastered.


Social Intelligence will be the future! The reason is simple. Every interpersonal interaction has an emotional subtext to it. And most of that emotional undertone gets manifested less through words and more through nonverbal behaviours like gestures, expressions, postures, vocal cues or, for that matter, how one has shaped one's environment. As "Charity begins at home", shaping one's social Quotient is the key to success before administering any societal change.

Adversity Quotient composition with resilience as the prime ability helps one to bounce back and find a silver lining with a hopeful future. The first aspect of E.Q. is that we will look at gaining a positive yet accurate perspective.

Another trait of people with high A.Q. is having high endurance, which is closely linked with a perception of an adversity's temporariness, with the hope of "This too shall Pass"......

Experiences have I.Q.proven people with high A.Q. are the ones who can adapt to drastic changes in an organization, such as changes in management, sudden cost-cutting measures, and being assigned heavier workloads. It does not mean that they sacrifice personal well-being for the sake of grit—they deliver results first before negotiating terms later.

With this new paradigm – if we can build an agile generation, who will be able to face life as it comes, we will deliver a purposeful education, as educating the minds without educating the heart is a futile education .......

The best way to destiny is to create it, Strive & Drive.

Destiny is like a beautiful vast tapestry in which every thread is guided by a tender hand, placed beside another thread and held and carried by a hundred others.

As seen in the story and its conclusion, Our beautiful life has been a string of moments created, enjoyed, and experienced with others, and that makes the world turn, "Every Single Step, A Big Leap to Fly High"............

By mindfully becoming aware and actively doing the things that call to us, we begin to steer our ship towards passionate projects, people, and places that stay true to our inner compass, such that "Every Single Moment is Dear, To Steer Every Opportunity Near".........

In this process,

We are like stained - glass.

We sparkle and shine through the gleaming beauty of our own spectrum

We mirror and create our own selves

We take pride in living our Life and

Celebrate Every Single Moment of it to evolve, as self, Community and Terrane"..........Aham Brahmasmi.

Let us relate to the realistic pictographic illustration of the human mind with "Vikram and Bethal".

As we all know, this imaginative illustration happened only during nights when Raja Vikram used to stroll in the forest.

However, the situational incidences and questions raised by Bethal were not only thought-provoking but critically and crucially challenged the challenges and the analytical thought processes led to pragmatic solutions, making Maharajah Vikram a wise leader.

Why do not we think about a situation, as B


ethal is none other than Maharaj Vikram himself, his inner soul and thoughts alerting him to find solutions? If yes and agree with this fact, 1. Is it not too heavy to carry Bethal all the time, wherever Raja Vikram goes? 2. Is it not too challenging to put up with the craziness of Bethal all the time? 3. Is it not too awkward for Raja Vikram to get exposure to his weaknesses through Bethal? 4. if we go behind Bethal, when do we take our solutions into action? So, what did our wise Raja Vikram do? He gave only his strolling time to Bethal (his other side/inner soul) to come out and interact on various issues that needed attention. But, the resolutions sought with these self-interactions indeed brought in solutions.

Although they brought solutions, Raja Vikram never carried Bethal, all day long, everywhere.

He used Bethal (his own inner self) as only a travelling partner whose accomplice and advice yielded results. So, Why are we only carrying THAT HEAVY BAG on our shoulders wherever we go and spilling beans of problems, crises and negativity spreading pes


simism around?

Instead, can we try saying that,

"WE ARE OUR OWN FRIEND“, "WE BRING YOUR OWN HAPPINESS AND PEACE“, "WE LOOK INTO OUR OWN SELF AND FIND PEACE WITHIN OURSELF, RATHER THAN LOOKING AROUND“, "IF WE HAVE A PROBLEM & WE CAN DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT, THEN WHY WAIT? WE DO IT“, AND "IF WE HAVE A PROBLEM, THEN WE ARE NOT ABLE TO RESOLVE IT NOW, WE WAIT FOR THE RIGHT TIME TO RESOLVE IT". As we know that, TIMELY EFFORT MAKE THINGS EASIER. For this, we don't blame our situations, acquaintances, or resources. It is all within ourselves. We chisel our own selves. We are the sculptor of our own state-of-the-art.

We are our own angels of our peace.

So let us live and let live.

The true Sucess Quotient of Life depends on "Aham Bramhasmi" .........................................

We are like stained - glass. We sparkle and shine through the gleaming beauty of our own spectrum. We mirror and create our own selves ... Aham Brahmasmi...

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